Imagine two people dancing

One is in the lead, the other gracefully following their steps. That is how life can be and, boy, can it throw you for a loop. Too oftentimes, as women, we find ourselves in the position of having to be the leader in the relationship. This includes planning, finances, organizing, and even keeping the relationship fun and exciting. It is overwhelming and too often it turns into being “the bad guy.” 

Lately, I have been successful at scoring being in that role. This means I get the opportunity to tell my husband, mind you it is over and over again, about deadlines, plans, etc. Many times he does not really process what I am saying. I am sure others can relate here. However, it is always a fun experience when the deadline impacts him or his family. That is when the bad guy persona is intensified. I mean, how dare you set plans and deadlines that they were unaware of. Granted, you have been mentioning or...